Let’s be real—no bridal shower is complete without a few giggles, some mild chaos, and at least one game that gets people yelling, “Wait, how do you not know this?!”
Enter the ever-iconic, crowd-favourite: “How Well Do You Know the Bride?”
This game isn’t just a party filler—it’s what bonds the guests, sparks hilarious convos, and spills a few adorable (and possibly embarrassing) stories about the bride-to-be. Whether you’re planning a classy afternoon tea or a wild bachelorette bash, this one’s a total winner.
Want all the best bridal shower questions in one spot?
Keep reading—you’ll find some generic, sassy, and laugh-out-loud option ready to copy, print, and play!
How to Play the Game “How Well Do You Know the Bride”
So, you’ve decided to bring the bridal shower game to life?
Excellent choice, party legend. “How Well Do You Know the Bride?” is a breeze to play, but let’s make it iconic. Follow these fab seven steps and prepare for laughs, surprises, and maybe even a little competitive chaos.
Step 1: Create a List of Questions
Time to channel your inner game show host. Think fun, personal, and just a tad mischievous. This isn’t a pop quiz from your 8th-grade history class—these questions should bring out the bride’s quirks, faves, and maybe that one hilarious story about her and tequila in Tulum.
Mix up the style of bridal shower question:
- Easy peasy: What’s her coffee order? (Spoiler: oat milk is probably involved.)
- Memory lane: Where did she meet her fiancé?
- Spicy fun: What’s her celebrity crush?
- Wildcard: What’s something in her purse right now?
Pro tip: Ask the bride in advance (privately!) to confirm your final list so you don’t accidentally start a debate about whether her favourite colour is “blush” or “dusty rose.”
Step 2: Create an Answer Sheet
No one wants to scribble answers on the back of a napkin.
Make it cute! Whether it’s a pretty printable or a quick DIY sheet with numbered lines, give guests something aesthetic to jot down their guesses, bonus points for on-theme fonts and floral borders (obviously).
Want to go digital? Google Forms or Canva templates are your besties. Just don’t forget to hide the answers!
Step 3: Give Participants Materials
This is your hosting moment. Distribute the answer sheets, clipboards if you’re extra, and pens that work. If your vibe is more boho-chic than bridal-boring, tie a tiny ribbon around each pen. (It’s the little things.)
Pro tip: Sneak in a few extra pens. Someone will lose one. It’s tradition.
Step 4: Swap Answers (Optional, but Drama-Friendly)
Feeling brave? After everyone’s done writing, have them swap sheets with the person next to them for scorekeeping.
This adds a little friendly accountability—and gives your guests a chance to throw some harmless shade when someone guesses the bride’s favourite food is “kale.”
Optional twist: Let them keep their sheets if your group is more “supportive squad” than “competitive chaos crew.”
Step 5: Ask the Bride Questions
Now it’s spotlight time! Read each question out loud and let the bride reveal her answers. Her reactions are half the fun. Expect responses like:
- “Wait, you all thought I hated sushi?!”
- “OMG, yes, I still sleep with Mr. Bunny.”
This is where the laughs, gasps, and oh-no-she-didn’t moments happen. Encourage storytelling. The more ridiculous the tale, the better.
Step 6: Tally Scores
Let your guests channel their inner Hermione and tally up those right answers. Each correct guess = 1 point. No partial credit for “almost remembering” her dog’s name. This is a wedding shower, not a charity.
Highest score wins. But let’s be real—anyone who remembered her favourite pizza topping from 7 years ago deserves some kind of prize.
Step 7: Crown the Winner
Whether you’re handing out a sparkly tiara, a mini champagne bottle, or a gift card for coffee (because they know the bride’s order), make the winner feel fabulous. Bonus drama if there’s a tie and you have to do a tiebreaker question on the spot.
Sassy host tip: Make the winner give a short, fake acceptance speech. It’s silly. It’s adorable. It’s 100% unforgettable.
And just like that, you’ve got yourself a memory-making, laughter-sparking, bride-celebrating masterpiece of a party game.
Whether it’s sweet, spicy, or straight-up savage (depending on your questions), “How Well Do You Know the Bride?” is guaranteed to be a moment.
60+ Bachelorette & Bridal Shower Party Questions for Every Vibe: Sweet, Spicy & Everything In Between
Below are different sets of “How Well Do You Know the Bride?” bridal party questions you can mix, match, or use as-is, each tailored to different vibes:
Generic & Classy Questionnaire for Bachelor Party Game
- What is the bride’s full name?
- Where did the bride grow up?
- What’s her go-to coffee or tea order?
- What’s her favourite flower?
- How did she meet the groom?
- When is her birthday?
- What’s her favourite colour?
- What is her dream vacation destination?
- Does she prefer sweet or salty snacks?
- What’s her guilty pleasure TV show?
- What’s her favourite book or author?
- What’s her signature scent/perfume?
- What’s one food she refuses to eat?
- What’s the name of her pet(s)?
- Is she more of a morning or night person?
- Who was her childhood celebrity crush?
- What’s her go-to karaoke song?
- What’s her biggest fear (irrational or otherwise)?
- How many kids does she want (if any)?
- What’s one thing she can’t leave the house without?
Sassy & Spicy Version of “How Well Do You Know the Bride”?
- What’s her go-to cocktail or drink order?
- What’s her ultimate hangover cure?
- What’s the craziest place she’s ever kissed someone?
- What’s her most-used emoji?
- What’s her favourite part of her body?
- Who is her ultimate hall pass?
- Lingerie or pyjamas—what’s her sleepwear vibe?
- What’s one thing that instantly makes her blush?
- What’s her guilty pleasure song she pretends not to like?
- What’s something in her browser history she wouldn’t want her mom to see?
- Has she ever sent a spicy text to the wrong person?
- What’s her code word for “get me out of here” on a bad date?
- What’s the one thing the groom does that drives her crazy (in a bad or good way)?
- What’s her biggest ick?
- What’s her secret party trick?
- What’s her “hot girl” anthem?
- What’s her drink-to-flirt ratio?
- What’s something the bride swears she’ll never do after marriage?
- Who would play her in the rom-com of her life?
- What’s her go-to move when she’s trying to be seductive?
Would The Bride Rather Questions
- Would the bride rather stay in or go out?
- Would she rather cook or order takeout?
- Would she rather live in the city or the countryside?
- Would she rather go skydiving or scuba diving?
- Would she rather give up chocolate or wine?
- Would she rather be too hot or too cold?
- Would she rather have a night with Netflix or a dance floor?
- Would she rather host a party or be a guest?
- Would she rather be surprised or have a plan?
- Would she rather wear heels or sneakers forever?
Travel Questions for Bridal Party Games
- What’s her dream vacation destination?
- What’s her favourite city she’s visited?
- Window or aisle seat on a flight?
- What’s one country on her bucket list?
- What’s her travel must-have item?
- Beach vacation or mountain escape?
- Has she ever missed a flight?
- Does she pack early or last-minute?
- What’s the first thing she does in a hotel room?
- Road trip or plane ride?
Tips & Considerations
Host Provides Answers or Bride Reveals Them
Decide ahead of time: Will you keep the bride’s answers secret and reveal them game-show-style? Or will the bride be the star of the show, reading out her answers live?
Pro Tip: Pre-writing answers keeps things flowing, while live responses add humour and spontaneous reactions!
Have Small Prizes for Winners
You’d be shocked at what people will do for a pre-loaded Starbucks card or a mini scented candle. Prizes keep the energy high and the competition fierce (in a good way).
Some cute prize ideas:
- Mini prosecco bottles
- Sheet masks
- Nail polish
- Bridal-themed cookies
“Winner” sashes or tiaras
Consider Punishments/Rewards for Losers
Want to spice it up? Introduce lighthearted consequences for losing. Nothing means—think “do a silly dance,” “tell a love story fail,” or “make a toast to the bride.”
It adds a layer of laughter without embarrassing anyone.
Ensure Questions Are Suitable for All Guests: The last thing you want is the bride’s aunt to be blushing over lingerie trivia—or younger cousins asking what “hall pass” means.
If your group spans generations, tailor the questions:
- Keep it cozy and clean
- Avoid overly romantic/personal topics
- Or offer guests a “skip” option if a question feels awkward
Pre-Determine an Answer Key
Whether you’re playing “How Well Do You Know the Bride?” or “Bride or Groom Trivia,” you’ll want official answers ready.
You can:
- Ask the bride to fill it out before the event
- Have her answers secretly recorded
- Or do a live reveal while someone else tallies
- This keeps the judging fair and fun!
Use a Neutral Party to Help Judge Answers
Designate someone who isn’t playing (or isn’t biased—looking at you, Maid of Honour 👀) to score or settle disputes.
This person can also help read questions and keep the pace on track.
Adaptable for Virtual Showers Too
Hosting over Zoom? You’ve got options!
- Use Google Forms to collect responses
- Try interactive PDFs with checkboxes and short answers
- Share the answer key screen after everyone submits
- Even try a live Kahoot quiz for the tech-savvy crew
- Distance doesn’t mean boring—it just means creative!
Complementary Activities
Pair your quiz with other sweet & memorable moments. Some ideas:
- Video montage of the groom answering the same questions.
- “Memory Lane” stories: Guests take turns sharing a funny/sweet memory about the bride.
- DIY craft table: Create keepsake cards, advice notes, or recipe books while chatting.
These extras add heart and depth to your shower—and maybe even a few happy tears.
Other Bridal & Wedding Party Games
Every legendary bridal shower party has one thing in common: games that make people laugh, bond, and maybe even cry-laugh into their mimosas. If you love “How Well Do You Know the Bride?”, you’re going to be obsessed with these add-on games.
From chill to cheeky, here’s a roundup of the best companion games to complete your pre-wedding party game suite.
Bridal Party Game “Would The Bride Rather?”
What it is: A cute twist on the classic “This or That,” but all about the bride’s preferences.
How to Play:
Guests get a list of options like:
- Stay in or go out?
- Pizza or sushi?
- Mountains or beach?
- Wine or margarita?
They circle what they think the bride would choose. Then, the bride reveals her actual picks!
Why it works:
Quick, fun, and a fabulous icebreaker. You’ll be surprised at how competitive people get about knowing her perfect Friday night plan.
Perfect for: Bridal showers, brunches, or warming up before the main games.
Wedding Party Game – “What Did The Groom Say?”
What it is: The “Newlywed Game” but flipped for the bridal shower.
How to Play:
Before the party, secretly ask the groom 10–15 questions about the bride or their relationship. Example questions:
- “What’s her weirdest habit?”
- “What was she wearing when you met?”
- “What’s her go-to Starbucks order?”
At the party, ask the bride the same questions out loud and see if her answers match the groom’s!
Why it works:
Hilarious, personal, and swoon-worthy. You’ll either be saying “Aww!” or “YIKES!”
Perfect for: Intimate bridal showers or co-ed parties with guests who know the couple well.
Who Am I? Bridal Shower Quiz
What it is: A storytelling guessing game where everyone shares a memory with the bride.
How to Play:
Each guest writes down a favourite/funny memory or how they met the bride (no names!). The host reads them aloud, and the bride has to guess who wrote each one.
Why it works:
Emotional, sweet, and often hilarious. It’s a low-pressure way for guests to share personal connections with the bride—and learn about the moments that made her who she is.
Perfect for: Sentimental or cozy bridal showers with close friends and family.
Guess Who: Bride or Groom Edition
What it is: A fast-paced guessing game that reveals fun (and sometimes embarrassing) facts about the couple.
How to Play:
Create a list of statements like:
- “Once got kicked out of a bar.”
- “Is scared of clowns.”
- “Loves pineapple on pizza.”
Guests guess if each fact refers to the bride or the groom. The bride reveals the truth!
Why it works:
It’s funny, a little chaotic, and reveals a lot about the couple’s quirks. Plus, it works great with co-ed parties.
Perfect for: Engagement parties, co-ed showers, or laid-back bachelorettes.
“What’s In Your Purse?” – Bridal Shower Game
What it is: A scavenger hunt–style game where guests earn points for items in their bags.
How to Play:
Hand out point sheets with items listed under point categories:
- 1 point: Lip balm, tissue, hand sanitiser
- 5 points: Floss, perfume, phone charger
- 10 points: Safety pin, snack, a sock (yes, it happens)
- 20+ points: Something wild like a mini bottle of wine or a dog toy
Guests tally their points based on what’s in their purses!
Why it works:
It’s light, fun, and everyone can play—even if they’ve never met the bride before.
Perfect for: Large parties, mixed age groups, or a filler game while guests arrive.
Bridal Bingo
What it is: Bingo, but make it bridal.
How to Play (2 Options):
- Gift Bingo: Guests get cards with potential gift items (“wine glasses,” “lingerie,” “candles”). As the bride opens gifts, guests mark off what she receives.
- People Bingo: Guests mark off squares like “Has known the bride for 10+ years” or “Is wearing pink.” Great as a social mixer!
Why it works:
Bingo adds energy to moments that can drag (like gift opening), and encourages mingling in a super casual way.
Perfect for: Larger showers, especially when gifts are involved.
Bridal Word Scramble
What it is: A quick word game featuring jumbled-up bridal terms.
How to Play:
Give guests a printed list of scrambled wedding-related words (e.g., “srdes” = “dress”). Set a timer and see who unscrambles the most in time.
Why it works:
It’s easy to prepare, fun to play, and gets brains buzzing. Great if your group loves games with a little pressure.
Perfect for: Game stations, icebreakers, or between larger games.
Bride & Groom Trivia
What it is: A mini quiz to see who knows the couple best—works like “How Well Do You Know the Bride?” but for both partners.
How to Play:
Ask fun multiple-choice or fill-in-the-blank questions like:
- Where was their first vacation together?
- What’s their favourite date night spot?
- Who’s messier in the kitchen?
Guests write their answers, then the bride (or both) reveal the correct ones.
Why it works:
Perfectly balances couple love with friendly competition. Everyone learns fun things about the lovebirds.
Perfect for: bride and groom shower party, engagement parties, or events with guests from both sides.
All-time favourite bridal shower game
There’s a reason this game has never gone out of style. “How Well Do You Know the Bride?” is the ultimate bridal shower staple. It’s nostalgic, fun, and always delivers some kind of “OMG, I had no idea!” moment. From grandma to your college roomie, everyone will have something to say when the questions start flying. It’s like a cozy little roast, with love and confetti.
Easy to play
No complicated rules. No teams to organise. No math (thank goodness).
Just print out the game cards, hand everyone a pen, and start quizzing away. Think “What’s her go-to coffee order?”, “Where did she meet the groom?”, “What’s her dream honeymoon spot?”
It’s low-effort but high-fun—exactly what you need when juggling cocktails, cupcakes, and cute party favours.
Good for all ages
Whether you’ve got flower girls in fairy wings or Aunt Cheryl who still writes checks at the grocery store, this game fits the bill. It’s wholesome enough for the littles and nostalgic enough for the grown-ups. No age limits, just all-around laughs and a shared goal: trying to prove you know the bride best.
Ice breaker
You know that awkward moment when everyone’s sipping mimosas and side-eyeing each other across the room? This game fixes that. Fast. It gets people talking, giggling, and bonding over the bride’s quirks. Bonus points if the bride herself plays along and spills some tea while correcting everyone’s answers.
Share laughter and tidbits about the bride-to-be
This is where the magic happens. You’ll learn things like: she hates olives, her childhood nickname was “Snugglebug,” and she once thought Paris was in Italy. True story. These little details bring the bride to life for everyone in the room, especially for guests who may not know her super well. It’s sweet. It’s silly. It’s a total memory-maker.
Also for bachelorette & engagement parties
Don’t limit the fun to just one event! This game is versatile enough to tag along to every pre-wedding party. Whether it’s an elegant engagement soirée or a wild girls’ weekend in Vegas, the questions can be tweaked to match the vibe. Want to spice it up for the bachelorette? Add a few cheeky or “after dark” questions.
Competitive twist
Got a guest list full of Type-A personalities or trivia lovers? Turn it into a full-blown competition. Timer. Prizes. Maybe even a “Bride Brainiac” crown (yes, that’s a thing now). Add scorecards or let the bride be the judge and award points for creativity. There’s no shame in turning a sweet game into a battle royale of bridal knowledge. Let the games begin!
The Final Toast to the Ultimate Bridal Game
At the end of the day, “How Well Do You Know the Bride?” isn’t just a game—it’s a celebration of love, friendship, and all the little details that make the bride one-of-a-kind.
It’s the perfect mix of laughter, memories, and a touch of friendly competition that brings everyone closer together.
Whether it’s your main event or one of many games on the agenda, it’s guaranteed to be a highlight of the party. So grab those answer sheets, pour another mimosa, and let the guessing (and giggling) begin!
